So,
according to my coworkers, I'm condescending. I do not believe this to be true and I think it's ridiculous. I know that I may be a know it all and sometimes I am a bit of a nagger, but it's only to make sure things are done in the right manor. Apparently, if someone thinks they are right and I point out where
they are wrong, that automatically makes me condescending. The main thing is I don't try to be condescending. I do think I can be sarcastic at times, but I think these things are separate.
I was told I do this thing with my face and place my hand near it and that's when people know I'm being condescending. I have no idea what this means, I actually think it's funny because I could probably think of ways I am condescending, but I hate people who act like that. I am not them!
I know/knew a lot of people who said that I think I'm high and mighty compared to them, or they think I am a mean person or totally careless and not sensitive to them. First, I hate when people tell me what I am thinking, because they surely know what I'm thinking. I don't even know what I'm thinking. Second and foremost, I am the complete opposite; yet, I have these reactions, apparently, I don't control or realize that I'm doing them. Don't get me wrong I definitely think some people make stupid or careless decisions, but I only think abut it when they ask me my opinions or ask me for money. To be honest I couldn't give one flying lick about what they do with their lives, I have my own life to live.
I live my life to my own standards, if I chose not to drink, that's my choice, not theirs to question me why I am doing so. I don't ask them why they would rather be hung over and not remember their previous night or not remember drunk dialing their ex. I just like to do what I want and say what I want to say. If you ask me a question I'm going to give you a straight up answer. If I am involved and your doing something wrong; I'm going to let you know the right way. Yeah, I know now you're thinking, THAT'S CONDESCENDING. However, in the end the only thing that matters is what I think of myself and I don't think I am condescending.
I was told I do this thing with my face and place my hand near it and that's when people know I'm being condescending. I have no idea what this means, I actually think it's funny because I could probably think of ways I am condescending, but I hate people who act like that. I am not them!
I know/knew a lot of people who said that I think I'm high and mighty compared to them, or they think I am a mean person or totally careless and not sensitive to them. First, I hate when people tell me what I am thinking, because they surely know what I'm thinking. I don't even know what I'm thinking. Second and foremost, I am the complete opposite; yet, I have these reactions, apparently, I don't control or realize that I'm doing them. Don't get me wrong I definitely think some people make stupid or careless decisions, but I only think abut it when they ask me my opinions or ask me for money. To be honest I couldn't give one flying lick about what they do with their lives, I have my own life to live.
I live my life to my own standards, if I chose not to drink, that's my choice, not theirs to question me why I am doing so. I don't ask them why they would rather be hung over and not remember their previous night or not remember drunk dialing their ex. I just like to do what I want and say what I want to say. If you ask me a question I'm going to give you a straight up answer. If I am involved and your doing something wrong; I'm going to let you know the right way. Yeah, I know now you're thinking, THAT'S CONDESCENDING. However, in the end the only thing that matters is what I think of myself and I don't think I am condescending.
